Is It ADHD or Anxiety? How to Tell Them Apart
Quick Answer
ADHD restlessness shows up even on calm days, with no worry behind it. Anxious distraction follows fear and eases when the worry does. The two often occur together and, left untreated, can make each other worse, so log what pulls your focus each day and bring that record to an evaluation that screens for both.
How do I tell whether it's ADHD or anxiety?
Track what pulls your focus away. Restlessness with no worry behind it, even on calm days, leans toward ADHD. Distraction pulled by fear leans toward anxiety.
What you need:
- A notebook or notes app you carry for several ordinary days
- Old report cards, or a parent who remembers you in grade school
- A short list of the places focus breaks down: home, work, friends
- A record of your bedtime and wake time
- Write down what was in your mind each time your focus broke. Anxious distraction often comes from hypervigilance, which means scanning for danger or a bad outcome. ADHD distraction looks more like a brain hunting for stimulation, such as reaching for your phone in the middle of a dull task. Hypervigilance can also follow trauma, which trauma and PTSD therapy in Frisco, TX works on directly.
- Check whether starting and finishing tasks stays hard on calm days. Kari Overstreet, DNP, a pediatric nurse practitioner at The REACH Institute, describes two things children tell her. Some think, "If only I weren't so worried, I could pay attention." Others say, "If only I could just focus, I wouldn't be so worried." Executive function is the set of mental skills you use to plan, start and finish things.
- Notice whether your restlessness arrives with a worry or with none. Tapping, fidgeting or pacing while nothing is bothering you points one way. A tight chest and racing thoughts about what could go wrong point the other.
- Look for the same pattern in your grade-school years. Under DSM-5-TR criteria, several symptoms must have been present before age 12. Parents can run these same steps for a teen and bring the notes to therapy for teens in Frisco, TX.
- Compare how you function at home, at work and with friends. A problem that follows you everywhere tells an evaluator something different from one that appears only in stressful places.
- Read back over what your worries are actually about. Worry that grows out of ADHD often centers on the symptoms. The REACH Institute describes children with untreated ADHD who worry about forgetting homework or getting in trouble. Worry about many everyday things that is hard to control fits generalized anxiety disorder more closely, according to the National Institute of Mental Health.
- Bring your notes to an evaluation that checks for both conditions. If anxiety turns out to be part of the picture, anxiety therapy in Frisco is one place to begin. We tell clients that weekly sessions for 12 weeks is a standard length of time for therapy to make significant progress on a treatment plan, though timelines vary based on the complexity of the trauma and the counseling approach, and clients with complex trauma may take longer.
Common mistakes
- Treating poor sleep as proof of one condition. Selman Gündoğan and colleagues, emergency medicine researchers in Istanbul, measured 609 adults at their hospital's emergency department and found that shorter sleep correlated with higher ADHD and higher anxiety symptom scores alike. The study reports correlation rather than causation, though the link still matters, so log your sleep without letting it decide the question.
- Letting an existing anxiety diagnosis close the question. Ask your evaluator to look at attention and restlessness on their own terms as well.
- Reading one online screener score as a diagnosis. Bring the score along as one more note for the person evaluating you.
Frequently Asked Questions
What else should you know about ADHD and anxiety?
Can you have ADHD and anxiety at the same time?
Yes. The CDC notes that anxiety can mimic ADHD and can also be co-occurring, meaning present alongside it, so a sound evaluation checks for both.
Who can evaluate you for both?
According to the CDC, a psychologist, a psychiatrist or a primary care provider can diagnose ADHD. For a child or teen, the process includes a medical exam with hearing and vision tests to rule out other causes, plus questions for parents and teachers about behavior at home, at school and with friends. Our team offers free consultations for ADHD therapy in Frisco, so you can decide whether we are a good therapeutic match. Call 469-238-2686 to get started.
Should you treat the anxiety first and see if focus improves?
The CDC says an evaluation should check whether another condition explains the symptoms better or occurs alongside ADHD. Treating anxiety first can show how much of the distraction was fear, though it delays the ADHD question when both are present. Ask whether your evaluator screens for both at the same visit.
Written by
Bonnie King
PhD, LPC-S, CSC
Bonnie King, PhD, LPC-S, CSC, has practiced as a counselor since 2010, working with children, adults, and teens with a variety of mental health concerns, including trauma, mood disorders, and specific concerns related to LGBTQ+ marginalization.
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